Monday, February 8, 2010

When A Friendship Ends, Why Is The Cause Either A Man or Money?

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I am not sure why so many women end life long friendships over men or money. For the most part they do not want to admit that a man came between their friendships but they will admit the fact that money was the culprit.

I made it a life long philosophy early on to never let friends or family members "borrow" money. If I don't have the money to give away, I cannot let you borrow it.  It has proven to work very well for me.  I have watched many relationships end over men or money and it saddens me.

When I was a teenager I started dating someone my best friend liked. I knew at the time that she liked him but I started dating him anyway and needless to say my friendship ended with her.  I always regretted our friendship ending.  It turned out that he was not worth either one of our times but she held a grudge against me all through high school and we never spoke to each other again.

Be it men or money, a friendship should be stronger than either one of those things. I guess since a friendship is based on trust and if one friend cannot trust the other with their money or their man, the relationship is over. Money has ended the friendship between men as well; people place a lot of value on money more so than their friendships at times. Is this something we are being taught?  So have you ended a friendship over a "man" or "money"?


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